I Would Like Some Contact With Others Who Have Been Through This Sort Of Situation...

Question: I was wondering if you could recommend sites regarding pregnancy from one night stands. My boyfriend went home for his brother's funeral, the death was sudden and very emotional. I didn't go as I was overseas with my mother at the time. He got drunk one evening, and a friend who had always fancied him, decided she could be really 'loving'. As a result she has had a baby. I would like some contact with others who have been through this sort of situation and some insight on how they dealt with it. Especially if they are (like I am) attempting to stay in the relationship.

Answer: 10 to 15% of children are conceived in an affair including one night stands. There's an excellent article on my web site and there is the Other Children's web site on which you will be able to join those in the same and related situations of staying in the relationships maybe even including the other child.

Answer provided by Peter Fox, Clinical Psychologist